Woke up feeling really good had a long and hard talk with Daddy and He was totally in-sync with me. In that mood I caught a friend online, one I like so I went ahead to chat with him. Just as I was really getting into the gist, he suddenly says " It's like you are beginning to nag", it left me cold on my tracks if there was one thing I dreaded to be called, it is a nagger! I thought I was a very understanding person cutting people really long slacks, letting them know how I felt so they could explain why they acted the way they did. looking back now, it hit me, maybe I really did nag.....
As that realisation hit me, it really hurt. How do you confront the people you love without coming off as nagging? How do you get someone to do something they ought to do without bringing it up over and over? It's an act I am baffled about but definitely one I have to learn. I never want to be a nagging woman, mother or wife....How does the book of Proverbs put it again.....??
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